horrible accident - Page 2

Nova89 · 04-10-2007, 06:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stonyloam

Sorry to hear it. It is tough losing a pet, but it is an opportunity to give another one a great home.

That is true, I never thought about it.

Gyre · 04-10-2007, 07:07 PM

As the others have said, I think we've all had moments like that.. I had a simalar fog accident. I'm so sorry.

poissonguppy · 04-10-2007, 07:13 PM

I'm really sorry about that accident... Just know it wasn't your fault!

Stefan-A · 04-10-2007, 11:22 PM

My sincere condolences.

That happens to be one of my worst fears, accidentally hurting or killing one of my snakes. Hurting more than killing, because then there is the issue of either having to try to save it or end its suffering as quickly as possible.

Gijs & Sabine · 04-11-2007, 12:59 AM

We're very sorry to hear that. But do not blame yourself.
I know it feels terrible, but after the clouds the sun is always shining.

Thamnophis · 04-11-2007, 04:24 AM

Accidents happen, Rhea. Don't be to hard for yourself.

drache · 04-11-2007, 06:08 AM

of course I woke up this morning, still horrified at what I'd done and wanting to undo it
this morning I felt the sense of loss so acutely
you know - they're all such individuals
his personality - it's gone now
I was going to get him a mate . . .
Mikhaila wants another just like him
for me it'll take a few days more to accept what happened

Spiderqwan · 04-11-2007, 11:17 AM

im really sorry and i hope you get through it if any of our snakes died we'd probably feel the same

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Cazador · 04-11-2007, 11:27 AM

Rhea,

If I could, I'd hold you by both shoulders... look right into your eyes, and remind you that you didn't mean to fill that water bowl over the snake. It was an accident, and you didn't choose to do it! Accidents happen all too quickly, and you would have prevented it if could have. You couldn't because you didn't "choose" to do it. Like knocking a glass off a counter that shatters on the floor, it was an accident, so as Fons says, "don't be too hard on yourself."

Rick

mark67123 · 04-11-2007, 12:00 PM

I know it's already been said, but don't be too hard on yourself.
I'm sure many, if not most of us have made a mistake that that could have, or did, have a similar outcome (I know I have) - you were just unlucky

Maybe give yourself a bit of time and then look into getting a snake from a local rescue centre - there's always one that needs a good home.

04-10-2007, 07:07 PM	#12 (permalink)
Gyre Juvenile snake Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Upstate New York Posts: 179 Country:	Re: horrible accident As the others have said, I think we've all had moments like that.. I had a simalar fog accident. I'm so sorry. __________________ Hannah

04-10-2007, 07:13 PM	#13 (permalink)
poissonguppy "First shed In Progress" Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Nebraska Posts: 79 Country:	Re: horrible accident I'm really sorry about that accident... Just know it wasn't your fault!

04-10-2007, 11:22 PM	#14 (permalink)
Stefan-A The Prince of Insufficient Light. Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Southern Finland Posts: 5,032 Country:	Re: horrible accident My sincere condolences. That happens to be one of my worst fears, accidentally hurting or killing one of my snakes. Hurting more than killing, because then there is the issue of either having to try to save it or end its suffering as quickly as possible. __________________ No cutesy.

04-11-2007, 12:59 AM	#15 (permalink)
Gijs & Sabine Adult snake Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Kudelstaart Posts: 645 Country:	Re: horrible accident We're very sorry to hear that. But do not blame yourself. I know it feels terrible, but after the clouds the sun is always shining.

04-11-2007, 04:24 AM	#16 (permalink)
Thamnophis Moderator Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Netherlands Posts: 1,313 Country:	Re: horrible accident Accidents happen, Rhea. Don't be to hard for yourself. __________________ Kousebandslangen.nl - Member of the EGSA It is always advisable to be a loser if you cannot become a winner. Frank Zappa

04-11-2007, 06:08 AM	#17 (permalink)
drache Ophiuchus rhea Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Brooklyn, New York Posts: 3,984 Country:	Re: horrible accident of course I woke up this morning, still horrified at what I'd done and wanting to undo it this morning I felt the sense of loss so acutely you know - they're all such individuals his personality - it's gone now I was going to get him a mate . . . Mikhaila wants another just like him for me it'll take a few days more to accept what happened __________________ rhea

04-11-2007, 11:17 AM	#18 (permalink)
Spiderqwan Never shed Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Manchester Posts: 30 Country:	Re: horrible accident im really sorry and i hope you get through it if any of our snakes died we'd probably feel the same .

04-11-2007, 11:27 AM	#19 (permalink)
Cazador Moderator Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Alaska, USA Posts: 1,608 Country:	Re: horrible accident Rhea, If I could, I'd hold you by both shoulders... look right into your eyes, and remind you that you didn't mean to fill that water bowl over the snake. It was an accident, and you didn't choose to do it! Accidents happen all too quickly, and you would have prevented it if could have. You couldn't because you didn't "choose" to do it. Like knocking a glass off a counter that shatters on the floor, it was an accident, so as Fons says, "don't be too hard on yourself." Rick

04-11-2007, 12:00 PM	#20 (permalink)
mark67123 Hi, I'm New Here! Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 9 Country:	Re: horrible accident I know it's already been said, but don't be too hard on yourself. I'm sure many, if not most of us have made a mistake that that could have, or did, have a similar outcome (I know I have) - you were just unlucky Maybe give yourself a bit of time and then look into getting a snake from a local rescue centre - there's always one that needs a good home.

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