Rhea and I remember the "good old days", I joined a month after she did and there were about 300 members. The site sure has grown up since then. As the forum gets larger (much larger) you do feel a loss, it is less personal, and with the anonymity it does seem a little less cordial at times, but at my advanced age I try not to waste any time worrying about what the jerks have to say. As for Stefan (defiantly NOT a jerk) I am sure he will think of something LOL.