Yeah, she is very calm, when I go to take her out of her tank, she just sorta sits there and says "where are we off to now" she doesn't try to escape and she doesn't freak out either. I have another smaller female that is pretty wild and can't sit still. That is why I'd consider keeping the big one and letting the little one go. The only other thing is, is that the big one won't eat. Is it possible that she won't eat because she has babies on the way? If I can't get her eating, then there is no chance I can keep her long term. (I've had her for about 5-6 days) If she has babies, I will probably take them to a large field area around my house with lots of tall grass and basically no people.