I completely understand not wanting to separate. Cee Cee and Seeley need to be separated...they were together because I orginally thought Seeley was a female for quite some time...and then found out he was a male. Now that they have been trying to mate, they need to be in separate enclosures...but they love being together so much, it breaks my heart and I end up letting them stay together a lot. Steve is going to be sending me same sex mates for them soon so that I can finally separate them without feeling guilty about leaving them alone.