why we come here

[drache]

Good topic. Is there a certain thread or threads that provoked this?

being that I am not here that much, it may just be accidental, but it's been close to half the threads I've looked into, and I also don't care to be specific, because I'd rather everybody be nicer than any one person feel accused
it feels so much better to have a resolve to copy what the kind people do because they seem to know how, than to feel like a dope because one's just not learned yet how to say things nicely
and btw - the use of words like "nice" and "kind" is making me feel like an old lady, so please don't make me go on about this