I have had a california red spotted male for a few months now, and i just bought a pair of regular red spotted, my californian will not leave the new femal alone, he keeps humping her, wrapping arround her and wiggling uo and down on her, they arent having sex that i can see , he just continue to dry hump her like a dog on your leg. should i seperate them? he freaks out if she gets away from him, darting arround until he finds her and start humping her right away, what should i do? and why is he doing this?