You guys all rock! Thanks for such good advise!! A really good group of people here, and I am glad I found this place!!

Lori I about died laughing when I read your Snakes names!! oh man!! Maybe I should name her "Cake" and when/if I get my male down the road name him ... yup you guessed it "Death" That way if someone comes over and ask to hold my snakes I could say "Cake or Death" that would be great

I do have a couple more questions now:

@Jeanette: I do feel pretty relaxed with her. Maybe a hint of nerves here and there since she striked at me. I do plan on taking your advise using calm times of the day. What is this moss you speak of? Just regular moss you find outside on a rock or something? Also I read on these forums about a "blue" stage... I think I am seeing hints of a bluish color on her and her hidding under the water bowl might be a sign she is getting ready to shed.. Im I understanding this "blue stage" correctly or am I just seeing things??? You also said "when he becomes used to you and being fed i would recommend moving him into a dry box for feeding as these guys can get impacted although its rare" What do you mean by dry box? And I was thinking of never feeding her in her enclosure. any draw back to this?

I think these are all my questions for now.. Thanks again!