it's normal for them to have insatiable appetites after brumation... especially gravid females. I would not be feeding the male so much though, he is likely to become obese on a diet like that! feed him smaller meals once every 3 or 4 days. That's all he needs... if the female is gravid, you can offer he small portions every day or every other day, depending on her size, 3 pinkies may be a little much for every day! pinkies are very fattening!